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Robi's avatar

I am almost a decade older than you and had less financial insecurity, although lots of emotional and interpersonal twists and turns growing up. My mom has always been a hugely important, if somehow unreachable, person in my life. She gave so much to so many and I often felt lost in the shuffle of needier people because she'd raised me to be self-reliant. The last 5 years have been a time of reconciling that feeling and finally spending some time together. It has been incredibly healing. In May she was admitted to the hospital for what was supposed to be a minor infection and passed away very unexpectedly. My summer plans went from spending lots of time with her to trying to settle her estate before the hectic pace of teaching Kindergarten comes back in September. Thank you for writing this piece. It helped me get to some of the grief that sits just below the surface of my heart every day. I find it emotionally easier to stay busy and distracted, but I need to get some tears out every once in a while. I am so glad you made it through all those years and that you share your ideas and perspectives with this band of weary, cheery ragamuffins who have found you.

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RoseAnne Mussar's avatar

This should be mandatory reading for every highschooler. The teen years are a rough time for many, but it CAN GET BETTER and almost always does. And if it isn't getting better, there's always somebody out there who can help. No matter how deep a pit you feel you are in, it is possible to climb out of it and it is possible to find someone to help lift you out. Keep being your awesome self Nathan!

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